Do I Hafta Grow Up? reveals secrets that our parents would never want us to know. Things our priests and clergy would never tell us (unless they were confessing to us!). What we always knew was true, even though none of the adults seemed willing to admit it. Such as:

• We had big challenges to meet when we were little—way before we got to be school age. It wasn’t just child’s play.
• If we met each challenge successfully, we moved on to the next one. And the next.
• When we fail to complete a challenge, we continue to be engaged until it is completed. (Hint—this is why our parents sometimes acted more childish than we were.)
• These successes—and failures—are cumulative. Our developmental bones require one another in a natural sequence. When we get them all we have the right stuff to become grownup. And when we don’t get them, the next ones cannot be attached the way they need to be.
• There is a natural order to growing up as a human being that’s universal. It doesn’t matter what color we are, where we’re born, what kind of spoon we found in our mouths. There is a universal natural plan at work that when we go with it things work much better for us.
• And the best news of all is that WE CAN STILL DO IT!
• Most of the problems we face as adults are not grown up problems. They come from unfinished business of childhood. Here are some examples:
• Insecurities and trust issues
• Fears like abandonment
• Dependency and codependency
• Persistent anger and fear responses—the ubiquitous fight or flight syndrome
• Problems with relationships—loved ones, parents, children and at work
• Patterns of failure and self sabotage
• Addictions to drugs, food, emotions, sex, and just about everything else.
• Confusion about who we are as individuals/men/women/parents/and social role.
• Some forms of depression and other kinds of mental health issues
• Experts have it that only about 14% of the population ever reaches adulthood as true grownups. The rest of us are playing dress up, faking it as best we can. So instead of enjoying all the freedoms and privileges accorded to grownups, we are still struggling with relationships, careers and raising children and wondering why:
• Why some things are so easy for us and so difficult for others. Or the reverse--so easy for us and others just don’t get it.
• Why we are constantly faced with certain kinds of challenges.
• Why some areas of our lives don’t ever seem to work, no matter how hard we try, how much good advice we get, how long we stay in therapy—or avoid it like the plague.
• Why so many of us need so much help to make a life, like to find a suitable partner in business and romance,
• And why we have to deal with so many losers!
• What we need isn’t more signs telling us not to go here, park there, turn this way and don’t walk. We don’t need more parental advice from newspaper columnists, talk show hosts and experts who lead us astray.

What we do need is a roadmap to the riches we all knew were going to come to us when we just got big enough. Grownup enough. Able to go out and be the person we all knew we could be back when we were little.

And now we have it A new book, just released, titled Do I Hafta Grow Up? The Adult Guide to Unfinished Business of Childhood

In it you will find answers to the question, what went wrong with most of us along the path of becoming the person we always wanted to be—and still secretly know we could be if only we could get over that particular hurdle.

Truth is the majority of adults are not operating at grownup level—and most of us aren’t either. That’s why our fears of childhood persist. Why we continue to have the same sorts of problems in jobs and our home life that we had in our own families and in grade school. And why the prosperity programs, success seminars, and religious teachings get rave reviews from some—and just don’t achieve a darn thing for others.

Just as we imagined when we were five years old, being grownup can be even more fun than hanging out with Peter Pan on a permanent basis. We knew we could become firemen, mommies, tycoons, rich and famous—and it’s true. We could and we still can!

But the kicker is that we need to be grownup.

All the way!

 It’s not something we can fake and it’s all too easy to look around and see all the folks around us playing dress up grownups. (If you know what to look for.) Pull down the mask and we/they crumble into little children.

Because you have been such a good sport and read along this far, I’m going to make you a great offer:

Not only will you get hundreds of insights into the process of growing up, I am going to add several chapters to the original book in a special Author’s Signature Edition that prove what I’ve said is true.

• That it’s still possible to recapture lost riches from childhood.
• That the principles outlined in this book can explain hundreds of things you’ve wondered about—and were too afraid to ask because there aren’t any adults around who would give a straight answer.
• Included are some examples and case histories of clients who have gone through a new and unique process that recaptures what they missed out on. And they came out as the grownup people they always wanted to be—but didn’t know how, just like the rest of us. That’s how I can guarantee that what I’m telling you is both practical and valuable.
• And when you read this and rethink your own experiences, I’m certain you will be instantly able to validate much of what I’ve said is profound truth.

And I’m going to give you this Author’s Signature Edition of Do I Hafta Grow UP  at a special price of just $29.95 as an introductory offer. This offer will not be repeated and is good for a limited time only. There’s even an Ebook version you can download instantly for only $19.95! And you will still be able to get all the bonuses, too!

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In my special Author’s Signature Edition I’ve included several chapters that a brick and mortar publishing house would surely edit out because they might be considered too controversial. They say too much. Reveal too many secrets about what’s really going on--instead of what everyone says is going on.

 And there is a chapter on Love. What it means when you are grown up. Why it means so many different things to different people. We use the word love to express eternal devotion to our most special life mate, the one and only one for each of us. But is our loved one saying the same thing to us when he or she talks about loving us?

• Why does love look more like being a dependent for some?
• Or the kind of love that brings us only down?
• Why a parent would think of taking their children with them when they decide to end their own lives?
• And why it gets stated in the same tone as affection for the family dog, favorite beer, or kitchen appliance.

By the middle of the book you will know how to spot the top 5 most terrible mistakes parents usually make in raising children. And how to avoid them. And why most of us make the same mistakes over and over. Just like our parents did. And their parents before them.

You will know why we have most of the problems we have as adults. And why so many people seem to need someone around to Mommy them, tell them what to do, when to do it, and to stop doing that!! And why so many people just can’t seem to think their way out of wet paper bag—and don’t even realize why they feel clammy and trapped all the time!

And I’ve even included a bonus chapter that gives an in-depth answer to the title question, Do I have to Grow UP? (Actually there are 3 answers--yes, no and yes!)

If you order one or more copies of my book right now I will include a couple more bonuses:

1. A place where you can download a hard copy of the questionnaire you took that you can print and sucker your friends into taking! (Just think how much fun you can have with that when you compare scores!)
2. A sneak preview of a new book that’s still in the production stage by an internationally renowned clairvoyant healer, Helena Messenger, titled 10 Things that will transform your life.
3. And a couple of chapters of another book that I wrote about Helena Messenger. Some say it’s a love story. Some that it validates much of what they always knew, or just suspected about hidden realities that lie beyond the normal 5 senses. I insist the book is a grand adventure (all true!) that far surpasses magic and mystery of Harry Potter’s fictional world.

So take my offer of the book (it can be downloaded as well) plus all these bonuses right now! This offer will not be around much longer and will definitely go away just as soon as the editor hears about it.

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(P.S. I can personally guarantee that you will be amazed and delighted with the information and find it invaluable in your own life, as well as making it much easier to understand all the rest of us playing dress up grownups a whole lot better, too.

So get the Author’s Signature Edition package right now, before this offer expires. I can guarantee that you will be thanking me once you’ve read it!)

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