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Want To Know How Much of a Grownup You Have Become?
Take one of these Tests:
- The PsyQ, self scoring test (click here)
- The Yes Test (below)
YES TEST
YES DON'T MEAN A THING--If you can't say NO!
Want to manifest your fondest dreams? Of course you do!
To have the universe hear what you want, you have to be able to say NO to what everyone else wants for you. And you must be able to generate a resounding, no-questions-asked, highly focused YES to what you want most.
Can you do that? To find out, answer these questions:
Section I. Can you answer YES to the following:
- I am an independent thinker. I don't follow fads, trends and what everyone else thinks.
- I have a strong sense of integrity. My word is very important and I do what I say I will do.
- Deep down I know I am worthy of having everything I desire without need for explanation or justifying why.
- People cannot make me do something that I know is not good for me.
- I can and do go my own way when doing so is important to me when it means leaving family, friends and favorite things behind.
- I ask for feedback, opinion and expertise from others and still make my own decisions using logical processes that I can explain in great detail, if necessary.
- I am fully accountable for my decisions, clean up my own messes and never blame others for the consequences of my actions.
- I am a unique individual and can tell you who I am in 10 words or less that includes why I chose to come to this lifetime in the body of a human.
- I am powerful, able to get others to do what I want by asking, rather than attempting to “make” them do my bidding covertly.
- I have more fun in the grownup world than most children ever have and can play at what
Section II Can you say NO to all the following:
- I need support from parent types, loved ones, experts, coaches, and those in authority before I can go out and do something on my own.
- I get angry if others don't give me what I want from them.
- Sales people can get me to donate more time and money than I want, particularly for worthy causes.
- Friends and family who need time, money, support, can get me to do their agendas when doing so takes me away from what is important to me.
- I hold others accountable for what I am ultimately responsible for (this includes most law suits, blame games and bitch sessions).
- I need advice about how to live my life, what to do, whom to marry, etc.
- I fall for temptations and seductions from the opposite sex for inappropriate liaisons, encounters, and affairs.
- I multitask
- I am easily distracted by television, radio, internet social sites and forwarding E-mail with little or no content.
- I am addicted to any of the following: regular alcohol consumption, gambling, tobacco, junk foods and caffeine.
Add up your answers from Section I and Section II.
How did you do? If you can’t say yes and no when you need to, you will find it impossible to maintain the kind of focus that is absolutely necessary to tell the universe what you want!
- Where does certainty come from to say no to what we don't want?
- Where do we go to get more if we don't have enough?
- How do we become secure, worthy and able to think and make decisions independent of what others think we should be doing with our lives?
- Where do we go to have enough all the time, without ever suffering from deficit of wealth, love, connection with others?
- How do we develop boundaries so we can keep those outside us from taking our stuff, our time, our glory, and our time?
- How can we move quickly through dependencies, attachments, and other entanglements cleanly?
- Where do we go to learn just who we are as unique individuals, far beyond the norm?
These are very important questions and there are no simple answers--although there are lots of band aids and cobbled together solutions.
Do I Hafta Grow UP? The Adult Guide to Unfinished Business of Childhood explains what's going on with the majority of the population. Why most of us are functioning so poorly as adults. And what we can do about it.
I can guarantee that by reading my book you will get straightforward answers to lots of questions and quandaries you've been having:
- Why you have the level of success you have, whether you are a low or high achiever.
- Why others have different abilities to be successful
- What you need to do in order to have better relationships, get off the merry-go-round of
- Where does motivation come from?
- What lies beyond wanting, wishing, believing in?
- Why most of us are secretly living in a fairy tale world with alter egos as princes, knights in shining armor, princesses with lots of frogs hopping around, waiting for that perfect kiss.
Click here to be taken to my storefront where you can get a paperback copy or download the book, Do I Hafta Grow UP? The Adult Guide to Unfinished Business of Childhood. There are a couple of options to choose from and you can even sample a couple of chapters before buying.
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